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Friday 26th September 2025 7.30 pm
Singles Dine & Dance
Singles Dine & Dance
The Brome Grange Hotel
Norfolk
£64.95
Event capacity 140
Tickets remaining 1

NEW EVENT!

By popular demand we return to the Brome Grange Hotel which is perfectly located on the A140 between Norfolk and Suffolk, also perfect for members who live further afield as you able to book a room. Bedrooms are reasonably priced.

Dine and dance and enjoy a delicious three course meal with wine in the fabulous surroundings of the Brome Grange Hotel. 

Excellent cuisine and stimulating company, two table moves for the gentlemen to keep the conversation buzzing, everything about this fabulous evening is right for you to meet that special someone.  Just glance Across the Room and see whose gaze you might encounter!

Call NOW to book your place - 01449 722800 / 07771 884429

Set on the main A140 Norwich Road, this venue is easy to reach from Essex, Norfolk or Suffolk.

Overnight accommodation is available on a first come, first served basis - please contact the hotel for details and room reservation
Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Suit or Jacket & Tie for the gents, Long or short dress for the ladies

A140
Norfolk
IP23 8AP

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One to One Personal Introductions
One to One Personal Introductions

Personal One 2 One Introductions in Suffolk

Would you like to find out more information regarding our successful One2One Personal Introduction service?   With various membership options available, there is something for everyone.   Please call the office for a friendly chat and to request a free, no obligation information pack.  Allow Across the Room to Fast Track you to love and romance.

Our Social Events and Dating Agency Service is very active in the Suffolk area. Many single people have met their match through this Personal Introduction Service.

Suffolk is one of our busiest areas and Across the Room holds many fabulous Singles Events in Suffolk! Single people in Suffolk enjoy dining at five star hotels with many other like-minded single members!


Saturday 18th October 2025 6.30 pm
Singles Sapphire Black Tie Ball
Singles Sapphire Black Tie Ball
The Brickendon Grange Country Club
Hertfordshire
£65.95
Event capacity 140
Tickets remaining 1

NEW EVENT!

Overnight stay - Call us for a list of nearby hotels.

Meet your match tonight at our Strictly Singles Ball!

Brickendon Grange offers a Private Suite, excellent cuisine and a congenial welcoming atmosphere.

We will personally meet you on arrival and introduce you to other like minded singles to mix and mingle and keep the conversation flowing.

Take your seat for an exquisite 3 course meal with fine wine whilst enjoying stimulating conversation.  Tables are age banded to ensure members are amongst singles within their age group.

Table moves for the gentlemen between courses ensure the evening is interesting and exciting throughout.

Our dance card offers the perfect ice breaker and gets everyone on the dance floor, our wonderful DJ knows exactly what to play to keep the dancing in full swing until midnight.

This event will sell out quickly so please book early to avoid disappointment.

Reception: 6.30 pm
Dinner: 7.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Black Tie for the Gents, Long dress for the ladies.

Pembridge Lane
Brickendon Green
Hertford
Hertfordshire
SG13 8PD

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Friday 7th November 2025 7.00 pm
Sparkling Singles Dine & Dance
Sparkling Singles Dine & Dance
The Bull Hotel
Suffolk
£63.95
Event capacity 120
Tickets remaining 1

By popular demand we return to the The Bull in Long Melford. We are sure that there is something magical about this beautiful historic hotel. Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you in the front lounge bar for pre dinner drinks where you can acquaint yourself with other members of Across the Room.

Dinner will be served in the beamed restaurant with it s very own centrally located dance floor. Dance until midnight whilst taking advantage of the comfortable lounges for that intimate tête à tête! This event is always a winner so book early to avoid disappointment.

If you would like to find out if Across the Room is for you, please call the office on 01449 722800 / 723191 - There is no obligation.

Reception: 7.00 pm
Dinner: 7.30 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Suit or Jacket & Tie for the gents, Long or short dress for the ladies

Hall Street
Long Melford
Sudbury
Suffolk
CO10 9JG

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Tuesday 30th December 2025 7.30 pm
Pre New Year Singles Black Tie Ball
Pre New Year Singles Black Tie Ball
Stock Brook Manor
Essex
£68.95
Event capacity 240
Tickets remaining 1

We are incredibly excited to announce our return to Stock Brook Manor for our pre New Years’ Eve Singles Extravaganza!

This Black Tie Ball will be a thrilling event to see in 2026. This event could change your life, as the clock strikes midnight, whose gaze will catch your eye Across the Room.

black tieThis will be an exhilarating experience; the atmosphere will be electric, the company will be stimulating and the food will be delicious.

Eleanor will meet you on arrival, introducing you to new and existing members - so don’t worry about coming alone. Two table moves for the gentlemen throughout dinner keeping the conversation flowing. This is set to be a fantastic event so an early booking is highly recommended.

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 1.00 am
Dress Code: Black Tie for the Gents, Long Evening dress for the ladies

Queens Park Avenue
Stock
Nr. Billericay
Billericay
Essex
CM12 0SP

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Sunday 18th January 2026 12.00 pm
Sizzling Singles Sunday Lunch
Sizzling Singles Sunday Lunch
Hanbury Manor
Hertfordshire
£67.95
Event capacity 12
Tickets remaining 0 Fully Booked

Hanbury Manor - A Stately Jacobean Country House

With its fragrant walled gardens, stately Jacobean Country House and 200 acres of Hertfordshire parkland, the historic Hanbury Manor is sure to sell out!

Sunday lunches create the perfect relaxed atmosphere in which you can meet like minded people and wile away the afternoon whilst meeting new and exciting new friends. What could be more perfect? So join us this Sunday and your luck may change for the better.

Tickets will sell quicky for this event, so get your booking in early! Call now on 01449 722800 or 07771 884429 and we'll get you booked in.

Reception: 12.00 pm
Dinner: 9.36 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Sunday Best

Hanbury Drive
Ware
Hertfordshire
SG12 0SD

 

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Saturday 14th February 2026 7.30 pm
The Moonlit Valentines Ball
The Moonlit Valentines Ball
Barnham Broom Hotel
Norfolk
£67.95
Event capacity 150
Tickets remaining 3

Exciting New Venue!

Join us for an unforgettable Valentine's Black Tie Ball at the Barnham Broom Hotel, where the charm of a beautiful setting and the thrill of new connections come together. This special singles Black Tie Ball invites you to meet like minded Singles in a vibrant atmosphere enhanced by the stunning décor of the venue. With an enticing ambience that encourages mingling, it’s the perfect opportunity to explore potential friendships or perhaps something more special.

Exquisite Dining Experience

The evening begins with a delightful three-course meal paired with a selection of fine wines, designed to stimulate your taste buds and create invigorating conversation. Each dish is crafted with care, featuring seasonal ingredients that elevate the dining experience. As the gentlemen will move between tables, conversations will flow freely, ensuring that laughter and engaging discussions keep the spirit lively. This interactive dining format encourages connection, allowing guests to discover more about each other in a relaxed environment.

A Memorable Evening of Dance

After savouring the exquisite meal, the night transitions into a lively dance party featuring our resident DJ. The dance floor beckons as music fills the room, setting the stage for fun and connection. Guests are encouraged to let loose, enjoying the rhythm and energy of the night while mingling with others. The atmosphere is perfect for breaking the ice, letting you embrace the spontaneity of the evening as laughter and new friendships form on the dance floor.

As you glance across the room, you might find someone catching your eye, igniting a spark of curiosity and potential connection. Who knows what the night could bring? Whether it's a new friendship or a romantic encounter, the possibilities are endless at this exciting singles dinner dance.

Luxurious Overnight Accommodation

For those wishing to continue the night’s enchantment, Barnham Broom Hotel offers luxurious bedrooms for overnight stays. After an evening of fine dining and dancing, retreat to your beautifully designed room, complete with all the amenities you need for a restful night. 

Please book accommodation directly with the hotel 01603 759393
https://barnham-broom.co.uk

We have some rooms reserved at the Barnham Broom - please say you are with Across the Room when booking.

Alternative Accommodation

Otherwise, these are some of the nearby alternative hotels if Barnham Broom is full:

Honingham Buck (3.5 miles)  NR9 5BL 01603 880393
The Parson Woodforge (8 miles)  NR9 5JU  01603 881675
Wensum Valley Golf Club Hotel (7 miles)  NR8 6HP  01603 261012
Premiere Inn Norwich West A47 (6 milles)  NR5 0TP  03333 211366

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Black Tie for the Gents, Long dress for the ladies.

Honingham Road
Barnham Broom
Norwich
Norfolk
NR9 4DD

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One 2 One Dating
One 2 One Dating

Personal One 2 One Introductions in Essex

With various membership options available, there is something for everyone.   Please call the office for a friendly chat and to request a free, no obligation information pack.  Allow Across the Room to Fast Track you to love and romance.

Our Social Events and Dating Agency Service is very active in the Essex area. Many single people have met their match through this Personal Introduction Service.

Essex is one of our busiest areas and Across the Room holds many fabulous Singles Events in Essex! Single people in Essex enjoy dining at five star hotels with many other like-minded single members!


Friday 17th April 2026 7.30 pm
Springtime Singles Dinner Dance
Springtime Singles Dinner Dance
Channels Estate Hotel
Essex
£68.95
Event capacity 140
Tickets remaining 9

Join us for an unforgettable Springtime Singles Dinner Dance at Channels in Chelmsford, where the night is designed exclusively for those seeking connection and fun. This enchanting evening features a three course meal and wine. Each dish is thoughtfully crafted to satisfy the taste buds and set the stage for the evening's romantic atmosphere.

To enhance the social experience, the event includes table moves for the gentlemen, allowing them to switch tables between courses. This unique feature keeps the conversation flowing and encourages Singles to engage with different guests, fostering lively interactions. As new faces are met, the potential for new friends to be made increases, making each moment at the table an exciting opportunity to discover common interests and shared stories.

After an exquisite dinner, the ambiance shifts and the dance floor opens up. Our resident DJ will take over, playing a mixture of popular tunes to get everyone moving. Whether you are a seasoned dancer or just looking to have fun, the lively setting will invite everyone to let loose and enjoy the rhythm. Our six starter dances are the perfect way to break the ice further, allowing connections to deepen through shared enjoyment and laughter.

Given its popularity, Channels is a sought after venue for such events, so it’s wise to book early to secure your spot. Don’t miss this chance to meet new people, enjoy a delicious meal, and dance the night away in a charming and friendly environment. Book now and join us for an evening filled with excitement, connection, and unforgettable memories.

Accommodation Available - Please contact Channels directly to book your room. 01245 441547

 

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Suit or Jacket & Tie for the gents, Long or short dress for the ladies

Pratts Farm Lane East
Little Waltham
Chelmsford
Essex
CM3 3PT

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Thursday 14th May 2026 7.30 pm
Singles Matchmaker Dinner
Singles Matchmaker Dinner
The Blue Strawberry
Essex
£58.95
Event capacity 40
Tickets remaining 1

Experience a delightful evening at The Blue Strawberry in Hatfield Peverel, one of our favourite venues for a Summer Singles Dinner. Known for its outstanding cuisine, this charming location blends old world charm with modern convenience, making it an ideal spot for singles looking to connect. Its proximity to Chelmsford and easy access from the A12 ensures that guests can enjoy a hassle-free journey to this enchanting setting.

Equal Numbers

With equal numbers of ladies and gentlemen, the atmosphere is perfectly balanced, allowing everyone the chance to engage in meaningful interactions. Guests will have ample time to mix and mingle before and after the meal, creating a relaxed environment where conversations can flow freely. This thoughtful arrangement sets the stage for an enjoyable evening, making it easier to strike up a connection with someone special.

Choice of Menu

One unique aspect of our dinner is the table moves for gentlemen, which encourages more dynamic interactions. As they switch tables between courses, gentlemen have the opportunity to chat with different guests, expanding their social circle throughout the night. This feature not only keeps discussions lively but also fosters an atmosphere where friendships can easily blossom.

Make New Friends

blue strawberryThe Blue Strawberry at Hatfield Peverel is a place where connections are made and memories are created. Join us for an evening filled with delicious food, engaging conversations, and the potential to forge lasting relationships in a warm and welcoming environment. Don’t miss out on this wonderful opportunity to meet new people over a delightful dinner!

Call now to book your place on 01449 722800 or 07771 884429

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Smart

The Street
Hatfield Peverel
Chelmsford
Essex
CM3 2DW

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Thursday 11th June 2026 7.30 pm
Intimate Singles Dinner
Intimate Singles Dinner
Maltons
Hertfordshire
£55.95
Event capacity 8
Tickets remaining 0 Fully Booked

A new venue for Across the Room. Join us at this exquisite restaurant for a romantic "Dinner for Eight at Eight."

A romantic dinner unfolds as the sun sets, casting a golden hue over this charming restaurant. the ambience is perfect for turning a new acquainntance into something special.

The menu is a gastronomic delight, featuring a carefully curated selection of dishes that embody culinary artistry.

We meet you on arrival and introduce you to other members. Don’t worry about coming
alone!

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Smart

Cambridge Road
Ware
Hertfordshire
SG12 0SD

 

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Monday 15th June 2026 10.30 am
Summer Singles Dinner
Summer Singles Dinner
The Blue Strawberry
Essex
£38.95
Event capacity 40
Tickets remaining 0 Fully Booked

FULLY BOOKED - BUT - WE ARE BACK AT THE BLUE STRAWBERRY IN AUGUST

Blue Strawberry is always a popular event, there is a certain charm about this venue with exposed beams and the good company you will find with our members.

Renowned throughout Essex and beyond, this unique venue offers high class cuisine and fine wines, plus a warm, inviting atmosphere - perfect for sparking that intimate relationship.

Meet someone new in this homely, intimate bistro! Sumptuous food, fine wines and irresistible company - meet your dream partner tonight.

Make your selection from a varied menu and enjoy each course with new company as the gentlemen move round between courses.

Don't forget - our events are STRICTLY SINGLES ! no couples (unless you meet on the night!)

Eleanor will meet you on arrival, so no need to worry if you are coming on your own.

Call now to book your place on 01449 722800.

Reception: 10.30 am
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 11.00 pm
Dress Code: Smart

The Street
Hatfield Peverel
Chelmsford
Essex
CM3 2DW

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Friday 3rd July 2026 7.00 pm
Summer Singles Extravaganza
Summer Singles Extravaganza
The Bull Hotel
Suffolk
£67.95
Event capacity 120
Tickets remaining 4

The Bull is a very popular venue with our members and one of our regular venues, always a sell-out!

We return to this historic Hotel in Long Melford, where you will meet with members who travel from far and wide to attend this exceptional Singles night out!

Excellent cuisine, fine wines plus the magical atmosphere as  you enter this unique hotel make for a very special evening. If you would like to stay overnight, they have good room rates so why not make a weekend break - Long Melford is a beautiful town with Lavenham nearby too.  There is also additional accommodation very close by.

Don't forget to book early, The Bull is one of our favourite venues, so get it in your diary now!  Fantastic value for such an exclusive event.

One 2 One ?

Would you like to enhance your chances of meeting that someone special?  Why not join our highly successful One2One dating agency in Suffolk - call today for a no-obligation chat,  01449 722800

Reception: 7.00 pm
Dinner: 7.30 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Suit or Jacket & Tie for the Gents, Long or short dress for the ladies.

Hall Street
Long Melford
Sudbury
Suffolk
CO10 9JG

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Coming Soon
Coming Soon

We return to The Bull - SUFFOLK

Friday 23rd October 2026 7.00 pm

£68.95
Event capacity 120

The Bull is one of our favourite venues with its olde worlde charm and private function room with oak beams and central dance floor. 01449 722800

Tickets selling fast - book now! 

Suffolk is one of our busiest areas a d Across the Room holds many fabulous Singles Events in Suffolk! Single people in Suffolk enjoy dining at five star hotels with many other like-minded single members!

SEE BELOW ON THE CALENDAR FOR FULL DETAILS

 


Wednesday 22nd July 2026 7.00 pm
Haunted Pubs Tour
Haunted Pubs Tour
Specialist Event
£19.95
Event capacity 12
Tickets remaining 0 Fully Booked

SPECIALIST EVENT - LONDON HAUNTINGS

Explore all things ghostly as we visit London's most haunted pubs.

Some of London's pubs date back to pre-Victorian times.  Many a pub is said to be haunted by a previous landlord or guest or even someone who lived (or died) on the land before the pub was built.

This is a tour on foot around some of the pubs where spooky things are said to have happened, with some strange phenomina even happening today!

Join us if you dare for this unique specialist event.  We hope to have equal numbers of ladies and gentlemen and there may be ghostly lady/gentlemen companions to meet while you are there!

Reception: 7.00 pm
Dinner: 12.00 am
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Casual

Please contact the office
for location and details
of this event

 

 

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Wednesday 5th August 2026 7.30 pm
Tick Tock Dinner for 8 at 8
Tick Tock Dinner for 8 at 8
The Bear
Essex
£58.95
Event capacity 8
Tickets remaining 0 Fully Booked

PRIVATE SUITE 

Set in this intimate location nothing could be more perfect for a Tick Tock dinner for 8 at 8pm.  

You will be met on arrival by Eleanor and her hostesses, and introduced to other members hoping to meet that someone special in time for a summer romance - who knows where this will lead - happy ever after maybe?  

Tickets are strictly limited so book early to avoid disappointment.  

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 11.00 pm
Dress Code: Smart

16 The Square
Stock
Ingatestone
Essex
CM4 9LH

 

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Wednesday 12th August 2026 1.00 pm
Afternoon Tea at The Ritz
Afternoon Tea at The Ritz
The Ritz
London
£135.00
Event capacity 12
Tickets remaining 0 Fully Booked

Five star luxury in the heart of London! This exquisite event is not to be missed! World famous scrumptious cuisine, French wines and Champagnes served in the spectacular Palm Court.

The Palm Court is an impressive room of fanciful design, flanked by high walls of gleaming mirrors, a ceiling seemingly woven together with intricate gilded trellis, romantic birdcage chandeliers adorned with ornate metal flowers, a striking stone fountain inhabited by large gilded statues and at the centre of the room a soaring, vibrant floral display.

An unforgettable afternoon is to be had by all. Eleanor will meet you on arrival and you will be served a variety of specialist dishes and delicious menu options. Tickets are strictly limited for this event so don’t delay – book today!

Please note: Owing to the speciality of this event we cannot guarantee equal numbers of ladies and gentlemen.

Reception: 1.00 pm
Dinner: 2.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Strict Formal Dress

150 Piccadilly
London
London
W1V 9DG

 

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Personal One 2 One Introductions
Personal One 2 One Introductions

Personal One 2 One Introductions — Find Love with Across The Room

We are delighted to offer our trusted personal introduction service across London, Hertfordshire, Essex, Suffolk and Norfolk — and we are very active and growing in all these areas! 
Whether you’re seeking romance, companionship or a life partner, we have membership options to suit everyone. Many single people have already met their perfect match through our caring, professional service — and we would love to help you find yours.

Here’s how it works:

You will meet Eleanor personally at one of our offices in London, Suffolk or Norfolk for a friendly, face‑to‑face interview. She takes time to truly understand your personality, lifestyle, values and preferences — then carefully introduces you to like‑minded people who match your outlook, interests and location.  Combine this with our wonderful social events programme for even more chances to connect.

Call our office today for a warm, no‑obligation chat — and request your free information pack. Let Across The Room fast‑track you toward finding love and romance. Your special someone could be just around the corner!


Thursday 20th August 2026 7.30 pm
Singles Matchmaker Dinner
Singles Matchmaker Dinner
The Blue Strawberry
Essex
£58.95
Event capacity 40
Tickets remaining 3

The Blue Strawberry is always a popular event, there is a certain charm about this venue with exposed beams and the good company you will find with our members.

Renowned throughout Essex and beyond, this unique venue offers high class cuisine and fine wines, plus a warm, inviting atmosphere - perfect for sparking that intimate relationship.

Meet someone new in this homely, intimate bistro! Sumptuous food, fine wine and irresistible company - meet your dream partner tonight.

Make your selection from a varied menu and enjoy each course with new company as the gentlemen move round between courses.

Don't forget - our events are STRICTLY SINGLES ! no couples (unless you meet on the night!)

Eleanor will meet you on arrival, so no need to worry if you are coming on your own.

Call now to book your place on 01449 722800 or 07771 884429

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Smart

The Street
Hatfield Peverel
Chelmsford
Essex
CM3 2DW

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Wednesday 26th August 2026 7.00 pm
Hot Tub Singles Party
Hot Tub Singles Party
Doves Barn
Suffolk
 
Event capacity 40
Tickets remaining 0 Fully Booked

Join us a Doves Barn for a social evening amongst like minded people.

Eleanor will meet you on arrival, then visit our Hot Tub Cabin, relax and make new acquaintances.   There will be a light buffet, wine and soft drinks.

These small, intimate events are very succesful and many coupls find their match.

Please call the office for more information - 01449 722800

Social events plus ...

Social events are great fun, so if you would like to find out more then please call the team for a friendly chat or maybe you are also thinking of joining our One2One Dating Agency? We have introduced countless happy couples through our personalised dating service. We are here to help you! So Call NOW and we will send you our Free information pack! 01449 722800 / 700 There is no obligation and this could change your life for the better!

Reception: 7.00 pm
Dinner: 7.00 pm
Carriages: 11.00 pm
Dress Code: Summery

Stowmarket Road
Badley
Ipswich
Suffolk
IP6 8RJ

 

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Don't foget to book early - our events sell out quickly, so call now to secure your place!

 


Wednesday 16th September 2026 12.00 am
Singles Ski Adventure
Singles Ski Adventure
Specialist Event
£225.00
Event capacity 0
Tickets remaining 0 Fully Booked

UFFOLK SKI CENTRE IPSWICH 

Time to hit the slopes and brush up on those skills!

Whether you have skied before or this is a new hobby for you, join us and other like minded singles and enjoy the exhilarating rush of the slopes and wind in your face.

Note: Because of the nature of this specialist event, we cannot guarantee equal numbers of ladies and gentlemen

For more information, please call the office.
These specialist events sell very quickly so call early!

What’s included: Exclusive hire of the dry ski slope for 90 minutes with a qualified instructor followed by light refreshments.

Reception: 12.00 am
Dinner: 12.00 am
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code:

Please contact the office
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of this event

 

 

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Saturday 19th September 2026 7.30 pm
Sparkling Singles Dinner Dance
Sparkling Singles Dinner Dance
Sprowston Manor Hotel
Norfolk
£67.95
Event capacity 180
Tickets remaining 8

We are excited to return to this prestige venue for our Singles Dinner Dance.

This Singles dinner dance at Sprowston Manor promises to be an exceptional evening designed specifically for Singles looking to make meaningful connections.  You will enjoy a sumptuous three course dinner, beautifully crafted to tantalize the taste buds. Fine wines not only enriches the dining experience but also creates the perfect backcloth for lively conversations and new friendships.

As you arrive, you will be greeted by Eleanor and her hostesses and experience the captivating atmosphere, enhanced by the beats of a resident DJ. 

To keep the mood engaging and conversations flowing, gentlemen will move between tables during the dinner. This dynamic format allows participants to mix and mingle with different guests, ensuring that no one feels left out. With every new table, the potential for connection grows as eyes meet across the room, igniting sparks of interest and anticipation for meaningful exchanges.

After dinner, the dance floor will become a hub of energy, where singles can express themselves through movement and rhythm, further breaking the ice and facilitating interactions.

Whether you're looking to find love or simply enjoy a night filled with laughter and connection, this dinner dance is a perfect opportunity. As the evening unfolds and connections deepen, Sprowston Manor will transform into more than just a venue; it will become a place where hearts and stories intertwine, creating lasting memories for all involved.

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Suit or Jacket & Tie for the gents, Long or short dress for the ladies

Wroxham Road
Norwich
Norfolk
NR7 8RP

 

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Friday 25th September 2026 7.30 pm
Sensational Singles Dinner Dance
Sensational Singles Dinner Dance
The Holiday Inn - Brentwood
Essex
£64.95
Event capacity 120
Tickets remaining 9

The Perfect Night Out – Easy to Find, Always a Hit!

Join us at the Brentwood Holiday Inn — ideally located right by the M25 and at the end of Brentwood High Street, with a huge, easy‑access car park so you can arrive stress‑free!

We pride ourselves on perfect equal numbers of ladies and gentlemen, creating the ideal atmosphere to meet like‑minded people. Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you on arrival, so no need to worry about coming alone.

Our brilliant format keeps things fresh: gentlemen move tables after every course, meaning you always sit next to someone new and exciting all evening!

After dinner, hit the dance floor with our great Disco — dance the night away, make fabulous new friends, boost your social life and open the door to romance. Whether you’re looking for fun or hoping to find love again, this is the place to be!

Always a total sell‑out — don’t delay! Secure your ticket today and get ready for an unforgettable night!

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Suit or Jacket & Tie for the gents, Long or shore dress for the ladies

Brook Street
Brentwood
Essex
CM14 5NF

 

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Thursday 1st October 2026 7.30 pm
Intimate Singles Dinner
Intimate Singles Dinner
Maltons
Hertfordshire
£55.95
Event capacity 8
Tickets remaining 0 Fully Booked

A new venue for Across the Room. Join us at this exquisite restaurant for a romantic "Dinner for Eight at Eight."

A romantic dinner unfolds as the sun sets, casting a golden hue over this charming restaurant. the ambience is perfect for turning a new acquainntance into something special.

The menu is a gastronomic delight, featuring a carefully curated selection of dishes that embody culinary artistry.

We meet you on arrival and introduce you to other members. Don’t worry about coming
alone!

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Suit or Jacket and Tie for the Gents, Long or short dress for the ladies

Cambridge Road
Ware
Hertfordshire
SG12 0SD

 

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Thursday 15th October 2026 7.30 pm
Intimate Singles Dinner
Intimate Singles Dinner
The Blue Strawberry
Essex
£58.95
Event capacity 40
Tickets remaining 9

Don’t miss an evening of excellent food, fine wines and sparkling conversation at our Intimate Singles Dinner at The Blue Strawberry, Hatfield Peverel. This popular event sells out fast - book your place today.

What to expect:

  • Delicious starter, main and dessert from a choice of the Chef’s Specials, cooked to perfection.
  • Two structured gentleman rotations between courses to keep conversation flowing and the table buzzing.
  • A warm welcome from Eleanor and her team on arrival.
  • A relaxed, attractive venue and stimulating company — a real chance to meet someone special.

Details & booking:

  • Limited places — early booking recommended.
  • If you missed this date, we return to The Blue Strawberry regularly; check our calendar for forthcoming events.

Coming alone - don't worry, Eleanor will meet you on arrival and introduce you to new and existing members.

Reserve your seat now for a memorable evening of food, wine and new connections.

 

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 11.00 pm
Dress Code: Smart

The Street
Hatfield Peverel
Chelmsford
Essex
CM3 2DW

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Friday 23rd October 2026 7.00 pm
Sparkling Singles Dinner Dance
Sparkling Singles Dinner Dance
The Bull Hotel
Suffolk
£68.95
Event capacity 120
Tickets remaining 84

Our Sparkling Singles Dinner Dance at The Bull Hotel in Long Melford is pure olde worlde charm.  Three course dinner with wine followed by dancing to our resident DJ.

Set in this fabulous historic hotel with exposed beams and comfortable surroundings, the atmosphere feels exciting, warm and celebratory, with a welcoming private suite and a dedicated dance floor that makes the whole evening flow beautifully from dinner to dancing.

You are met on arrival by Eleanor and her hostesses, who set the tone immediately - friendly, attentive, and beautifully organised, introducing you to new and existing members, so you feel looked after from the moment you step in.

The venue also lends itself perfectly to mingling and fun, and with equal numbers of ladies and gentlemen, the balance adds to that special “ready to dance” feeling throughout the night.

It’s one of our favourite venues, and this event always delivers: great company, lovely surroundings, and that classic Long Melford romantic spirit. From the first welcome to the last dance, it’s the kind of evening you just want to do again - warm, elegant, and genuinely memorable.

Reception: 7.00 pm
Dinner: 7.30 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Suit or Jacket and Tie for the Gents, Long or short dress for the ladies

Hall Street
Long Melford
Sudbury
Suffolk
CO10 9JG

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Saturday 14th November 2026 7.30 pm
Exclusive Singles Black Tie Ball
Exclusive Singles Black Tie Ball
Stock Brook Manor
Essex
£69.95
Event capacity 220
Tickets remaining 85

Welcome to the Stock Brook Manor Country Club,  the Premier Exclusive Singles Black Tie Ball in Essex. Enjoy the luxurious settings at this stunning venue, tickets sell fast!

Many of our single members have met their future partners at this, one of our flagship Singles Events.  We provide the venue, excellent cuisine, quality wine, spacious dance floor and new Single Company! An overwhelming feeling of excitement fills the air, attractive members all in high spirits and our DJ who whips up a frenzy on the dance floor!

Dine and dance in elegance and style at one of the most prestigious venues in Essex.

We meet you at the door and introduce you to new and existing members.

Call now on 01449 722800 to book your place.  Our ticket price is extraordinarily good value for this magnificent venue.

Tickets will go fast for this event - please book now!

This is one of our flagship Singles Events in Essex - if you have not experienced it before, come and join us, there is a great evening ahead!

To boost your chances of meeting that someone special even more, why not enquire about our successful dating agency in Essex - no obligation - call now 01449 722800.

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 1.00 am
Dress Code: Black Tie for the Gents, Long evening dress for the ladies.

Queens Park Avenue
Stock
Nr. Billericay
Billericay
Essex
CM12 0SP

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Wednesday 25th November 2026 7.00 pm
Matchmaker Dinner Indian Special
Matchmaker Dinner Indian Special
Nirvana Indian Restaurant
Essex
£55.95
Event capacity 20
Tickets remaining 18

40+ Matchmaker Dinner – Nirvana Indian Restaurant, Ingatestone

Join us for a warm, intimate evening at the lovely Nirvana Indian Restaurant in Ingatestone — perfect for making genuine connections and finding romance. With only 20 guests, it’s a relaxed, personal setting where you can really get to know like‑minded people aged 40+.

Enjoy delicious cuisine and friendly, attentive service in a wonderful atmosphere. We ensure equal numbers of ladies and gentlemen, giving everyone the best chance to meet new friends or even their perfect partner.

You will be met on arrival by Eleanor and her hostesses, so don't worry if you are coming alone.

Places are strictly limited — this small, popular event fills up extremely fast. Book your table early today to avoid disappointment!

Reception: 7.00 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Smart

72 High Street
Ingatestone
Essex
CM4 9DW

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Tuesday 1st December 2026 7.30 pm
Haunted Pubs Tour
Haunted Pubs Tour
Specialist Event
£58.00
Event capacity 12
Tickets remaining 3

Following our successful previous tours, we return to London to follow the trail of hauntings and supernatural happenings in some of the oldest pubs in the City.

Explore all things ghostly as we visit London's most haunted pubs.

Some of London's pubs date back to pre-Victorian times.  Many a pub is said to be haunted by a previous landlord or guest or even someone who lived (or died) on the land before the pub was built.

This is a tour on foot round some of the pubs where spooky things are said to have happened, with some strange phenomina even happening today!

Join us if you dare for this unique specialist event.  We hope to have equal numbers of ladies and gentlemen and there may be ghostly lady/gentlemen companions to meet while you are there!

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 12.00 am
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Casual

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Friday 4th December 2026 7.30 pm
Sparkles by the Riverside
Sparkles by the Riverside
New Inn
Norfolk
£58.95
Event capacity 20
Tickets remaining 17

Join us for a fun night out at the New Inn Horning on the Norfolk Broads.

Enjoy an exciting evening in a riverside venue for a delicious, home cooked meal. Equal numbers of ladies & gents, friendly atmosphere, wonderful new company. Book Now to reserve your ticket.

This charming riverside pub is full of character and is the perfect place to meet your special someone.  Table moves for the gentlemen between courses ensure the evening is interesting and exciting throughout.

Don't worry if you are coming on your own - Eleanor will meet you on arrival.

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 11.00 pm
Dress Code: Smart

54 Lower Street
Horning
Norfolk
NR12 8PF

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Personal One 2 One Introductions
Personal One 2 One Introductions

Your Path to True Love Starts Here — Across The Room

Finding someone truly special who fits your life, your values and your world shouldn’t feel like a guessing game. That’s where Across The Room comes in — your trusted personal introduction service, proudly connecting hearts across London, Hertfordshire, Essex, Suffolk, Norfolk and Cambridgeshire.

We believe the best matches share more than just interests — they share outlook, ideals, and a way of seeing life. That’s why we take the time to get to know the real you. Meet Eleanor personally at one of our offices, and together we’ll discover what matters most to you. We then carefully introduce you to like‑minded people who match your personality, your hopes — and crucially, who live close enough to build something real together.  Let’s find the person who’s been waiting for someone just like you.


Saturday 19th December 2026 7.30 pm
Singles Christmas Black Tie Ball
Singles Christmas Black Tie Ball
The Brickendon Grange Country Club
Hertfordshire
£69.95
Event capacity 200
Tickets remaining 51

Brickendon Grange offers a Private Suite, excellent cuisine and a congenial welcoming atmosphere.

We will personally meet you on arrival and introduce you to other like minded singles to mix and mingle and keep the conversation flowing.

Take your seat for an exquisite 3 course meal with fine wine whilst enjoying stimulating conversation.  Tables are age banded to ensure members are amongst singles within their age group.

Table moves for the gentlemen between courses ensure the evening is interesting and exciting throughout.

Our dance card offers the perfect ice breaker and gets everyone on the dance floor, our wonderful DJ knows exactly what to play to keep the dancing in full swing until midnight.

This event will sell out quickly so please book early to avoid disappointment.

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Black Tie for the Gents, Long evening dress for the ladies.

Pembridge Lane
Brickendon Green
Hertford
Hertfordshire
SG13 8PD

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Saturday 13th February 2027 7.30 pm
Singles Valentines Black Tie Ball
Singles Valentines Black Tie Ball
Barnham Broom Hotel
Norfolk
£68.95
Event capacity 150
Tickets remaining 150

Singles Valentines Extravaganza!

Join us for an unforgettable Valentine's Black Tie Ball at the Barnham Broom Hotel, where the charm of a beautiful setting and the thrill of new connections come together. This special singles Black Tie Ball invites you to meet like minded Singles in a vibrant atmosphere enhanced by the stunning décor of the venue. With an enticing ambience that encourages mingling, it’s the perfect opportunity to explore potential friendships or perhaps something more special.

Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you on arrival, so don't worry if you are coming on your own.

Exquisite Dining Experience

The evening begins with a delightful three-course meal paired with a selection of fine wines, designed to stimulate your taste buds and create invigorating conversation. Each dish is crafted with care, featuring seasonal ingredients that elevate the dining experience. As the gentlemen will move between tables, conversations will flow freely, ensuring that laughter and engaging discussions keep the spirit lively. This interactive dining format encourages connection, allowing guests to discover more about each other in a relaxed environment.

A Memorable Evening of Dance

After savouring the exquisite meal, the night transitions into a lively dance party featuring our resident DJ. The dance floor beckons as music fills the room, setting the stage for fun and connection. Guests are encouraged to let loose, enjoying the rhythm and energy of the night while mingling with others. The atmosphere is perfect for breaking the ice, letting you embrace the spontaneity of the evening as laughter and new friendships form on the dance floor.

As you glance across the room, you might find someone catching your eye, igniting a spark of curiosity and potential connection. Who knows what the night could bring? Whether it's a new friendship or a romantic encounter, the possibilities are endless at this exciting singles dinner dance.

Luxurious Overnight Accommodation

For those wishing to continue the night’s enchantment, Barnham Broom Hotel offers luxurious bedrooms for overnight stays. After an evening of fine dining and dancing, retreat to your beautifully designed room, complete with all the amenities you need for a restful night. 

Please book accommodation directly with the hotel 01603 759393
https://barnham-broom.co.uk

We have some rooms reserved at the Barnham Broom - please say you are with Across the Room when booking.

Alternative Accommodation

Otherwise, these are some of the nearby alternative hotels if Barnham Broom is full:

Honingham Buck (3.5 miles)  NR9 5BL 01603 880393
The Parson Woodforge (8 miles)  NR9 5JU  01603 881675
Wensum Valley Golf Club Hotel (7 miles)  NR8 6HP  01603 261012
Premiere Inn Norwich West A47 (6 milles)  NR5 0TP  03333 211366

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Bow tie for the gentlemen, Long evening gown for the ladies

Honingham Road
Barnham Broom
Norwich
Norfolk
NR9 4DD

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Saturday 20th March 2027 5.30 pm
Sizzling Suffolk Singles Dinner Dance
Sizzling Suffolk Singles Dinner Dance
The Ipswich Hotel
Suffolk
£68.95
Event capacity 120
Tickets remaining 117

Join us for a truly fabulous evening at The Ipswich Hotel - a wonderful venue, easy to find, with plenty of parking!

Enjoy a delicious three course meal, brilliant conversation, with equal numbers of single, unattached ladies and gentlemen present. The gentlemen move tables between courses so you will always have someone new to talk to!

We have a fantastic DJ to get everyone on the dance floor - dance the night away and boost your social life!

Coming alone? No need to worry! Eleanor and our friendly hostesses will meet you on arrival and make you feel instantly welcome. You’ll be looked after every step of the way.

This is your chance to meet like-minded people, make new friends, and perhaps find that someone special - love could be just one evening away! 

Tickets sell out fast - book early to avoid disappointment! 

Reception: 5.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Suit or Jacket & Tie for the gents, Long or short dress for the ladies

London Road
Copdock
Ipswich
Suffolk
IP8 3JD

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Wednesday 5th May 2027 12.00 am
The Love Boat Singles Cruise
The Love Boat Singles Cruise
Specialist Event
 
Event capacity 20
Tickets remaining 20

THE LOVE BOAT — Singles Cruise • Southampton • May 2027

ALL ABOARD THE LOVE BOAT!

Something BRAND NEW — something EXCITING — something SO SPECIAL! 🚢✨

Would you love to go on a cruise… but wish you could go with a wonderful group of friendly, like-minded singles instead of strangers? Now you can!

Across The Room is delighted to propose — THE LOVE BOAT!

Join us for a fabulous getaway setting sail from Southampton next May — choose from a 4-day mini-break or a wonderful 7-day cruise! Whether you want a short, sweet escape or a full week of sunshine and fun — we’ve got you covered!

Music, dancing, laughter, and fabulous company — every single day! 💃🕺
Eleanor and our wonderful hostesses will be there too — so you’ll see familiar faces, feel instantly welcome, and never be on your own. Whether you’re already a member or new to our social scene — everyone is welcome, aged 45+ — for a truly mixed, lively, and lovely group! ❤️
This is so much more than a cruise — it’s a chance to:

  • Get away, relax, and enjoy being looked after
  • Meet wonderful new friends and like-minded people
  • Dance, laugh, dine, and explore together
  • Sail away from Southampton and make magical memories
  • Find romance, friendship, or just have the time of your life!

It’s fresh, it’s fun, it’s different — and it’s all YOURS to enjoy! 🌊
WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU!

We are gauging interest now — if this sounds like YOUR perfect getaway, please get in touch!

Give us a call or send us an email to register your interest — tell us "I WANT TO JOIN THE LOVE BOAT!" — and we will send you all the exciting details as soon as they’re ready! 📧

No commitment needed yet — just show us you’d love to come, and we’ll do the rest! The more of you that say YES — the sooner we can finalise everything and set sail together! ⛓️⚓

Don’t miss the boat — we can’t wait to hear from you! 🚢💕

Reception: 12.00 am
Dinner: 12.00 am
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code:

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