Singles Events Calendar
Across the Room is a Strictly Singles Organisation.
All the members attending our events must be single and unattached!
If you are single and would like to join us please click here

We are excited to announce our return to Hertfordshire for a magical evening of fine dining and dancing at the spectacular Brickendon Grange Golf and Country Club.
Across the Room events are Strictly Singles. Members must be single, divorced, separated or widowed. Sorry, no couples.
Guests will be personally met on arrival with a welcome drink, and will be introduced to other like minded singles to mix and mingle and keep the conversation flowing.
Take your seat for an exquisite 3 course meal with fine wine whilst enjoying stimulating conversation. Tables are age banded to ensure members are amongst singles within their age group. Table moves for the gentlemen between courses ensure the evening is interesting and exciting throughout.
Our dance card system is the perfect ice breaker and gets everyone on the dance floor, our wonderful DJ knows exactly what to play to keep the dancing in full swing until midnight.
This event will sell out quickly so please book early to avoid disappointment.

Five star luxury in the heart of London! This exquisite event is not to be missed! World famous scrumptious cuisine, French wines and Champagnes served in the spectacular Palm Court; the Palm Court is a dramatic room of fanciful design, flanked by high walls of gleaming mirrors, a ceiling seemingly woven together with intricate gilded trellis, romantic birdcage chandeliers adorned with ornate metal flowers, a striking stone fountain inhabited by large gilded statues and at the centre of the room a soaring, vibrant floral display.
An unforgettable afternoon is to be had for you and other singles in your area. You will be served a variety of specialist teas and delicious menu. Tickets are strictly limited for this event so don’t delay – book today! Enjoy a traditional afternoon tea in the spectacular Palm Court.
The events are exciting and fun when they are in your area, but during the week why don't you meet single members for one to one dates that are personally tailored to meet your specific requirements. If you would like to know more about our successful dating service please call Eleanor for a friendly chat, there is no obligation and this could be just what you are looking for.
Call Eleanor on: 01449 722800 or 07771 884429
We also have a Dating Agency
If you are interested in our Dating Agency as well as our social events, then please call us for a friendly, no obligation chat on 01449 722700/800. All members of the One2One Dating receive a face to face interview, in order to get to know you and the type of person you would like to meet. Your matches will be hand picked and a team of experts will work on your behalf to find your perfect partner! Interested? Call us

No More Dinners for One!
Are you tired of dinners for one? Annoyed with singles supplements? Then it is time to act and make the change! Come out this Thursday and allow us to introduce you to attractive singles of the opposite sex. The Blue Strawberry serves the freshest, finest food set in lovely surroundings.
We will meet you on arrival – Two moves for the Gents to keep the table buzzing!
Don’t just sit at home and mope, With ATR There’s always hope!
Fab venue, great food & attractive new company, Wine included.
Worth every penny! Book your ticket Now!
Have you heard about our Dating Agency?
If you are new to Across the Room we would just like to remind you that we offer 2 services. Singles Events and our highly successful One2One Dating Agency.
This is a traditional personal service and not internet dating. We will have a personal interview to find out about you and the person you would like to meet. We have members in many counties, London, Hertfordshire, Berkshire, Cambridge, Kent, Suffolk, Essex, Norfolk and Linconshire.
So please take a look at our website and then call Eleanor or one of the team for a friendly chat and to find out more. Visit our offices, there is not obligation and this will be a great opportunity for us to meet you and for you to find out more about us.
Call Eleanor on 01449 722800 for an informal chat and to find out more.

Strictly Singles Only !! Our specialist singles events at the Rose and Crown sell out as soon as they appear in the programme. If you love fine dining, romance, and just being with that someone special then come and enjoy the wonderful atmosphere at the Rose and Crown and meet other members who have the same taste as you.
With its iconic Tudor beams and old world charm The Rose and Crown Hotel is one of modern Colchester’s most celebrated buildings. Steeped in history, and sympathetically renovated in accordance with its listed status. The building continues to stand as a poignant reminder of centuries gone by.
If you are someone who likes to make things happen, then pick up the phone and book today as this popular event will sell-out in no time!
Don’t miss out, Eleanor will meet you on arrival and introduce you to new, exciting members.
We have a constant flow of new members at each event, so book now as you never know who you may meet! How exciting!
A little something extra:
There is so much opportunity to meet new and exciting singles at our Black Tie Balls, Dinner & Dances and Party Nights. We have over 100 new members joining each month so there is so much opportunity to meet your someone special. However if you prefer to meet the opposite sex in a more intimate environment, maybe our One2One Personal Introductions would be more appropriate. Please call the office to discuss the social scene or our One2One dating agency on: 01449 722800 mobile: 07771 884429

This is a perfect, smaller event where our members can meet before attending some of our bigger events. A real ice-breaker Enjoy fantastic traditional Indian cuisine with your new friends in contemporary, relaxed settings - the best Indian restaurant in Ingatestone! Don’t cook dinner for one tonight – join us for a great evening out this Wednesday.
So take a midweek chance and make a change… who knows what is around the corner!
Would you also like to meet one to one?
The events are exciting and fun when they are in your area, but during the week why don't you meet single members for one to one dates that are personally tailored to meet your specific requirements. If you would like to know more about our successful dating service please call Eleanor for a friendly chat, there is no obligation and this could be just what you are looking for. Call Eleanor on: 01449 722800 or 07771 884429

Christmas Time with Across the Room - Let the festivities begin! Join us at one our favourite Singles Event venues - The Bull Long Melford on Sunday 18th December.
Full 3 course Christmas dinner with all the trimmings. Excellent company, stimulating conversation and the chance to meet lots of new single people.
If you are on your own and would like to join in with the full fun and excitement of the Christmas season, why not come along and celebrate with other single people. Table moves for the gentlemen keeps the party flowing and you are able to meet lots of new people.
Take the strain out of the run up to Christmas; relax and unwind in the charming surroundings of this oak beamed venue. One of our resident DJs will play a full range of music and following the meal you can dance the night away at your leisure.
Don't forget this special festive event is on a Sunday with arrival from 5 pm, dining at 6.00 pm followed by dancing until midnight.
Our Christmas specials are always a sell-out - and this year's event has the attraction of one of our regular and most popular venues.
Tickets will fly, so get your booking in early! Call now on 01449 722800 or 07771 884429 and we'll get you booked in so are assured of your place.
New Year approaches - would you like to meet someone new? Ask about our successful Dating Agency - Call Eleanor on 01449 722800

Welcome in the new year early at our Pre New Year's Black Tie Ball singles event in Essex.
You could also be welcoming in a new and special person to your life tonight! Our singles black tie balls have seen many couples getting together, after just that helping hand by us in arranging the venue, the food and drink, the dancing and all the magic of the ballroom.
New Year is the time for new beginnings and what better new beginning than to meet your perfect partner, so don't leave next year to chance, start to plan for it now and book your place at this magnificent event.
Stock Brook Manor is the very finest of venues and the surroundings are truly magnificent. We are fortunate to have secured the ballroom at this special time of year. This event is superb value, so don't delay - book today and get your sparkling new year in the diary now.
Wine included with the meal.
New year - new chances! Join our successful One 2 One dating agency in Essex - Call us now on 01449 722800 for a confidential no obligation chat.

Jazzy Sunday Lunch
Jazz up your Sunday on a fantastic River Thames cruise and enjoy the magnificent views of London through the Symphony’s glass structure and experience a unparalleled sightseeing experience. The cruise will take you past the Houses of Parliament, London Eye, Tower of London and many other famous landmarks.
Symphony’s wide expanse of glass, dark wooden flooring and sleek furniture bestow an elegant atmosphere while drifting away down the Thames.
Treat yourself to a different Sunday afternoon with this relaxing jazz cruise and indulge with a splendid three course menu while the jazz band strolls around the boat.
Boarding 12:30hrs
Boat Departs 13:00hrs
Boat Returns: 15:30hrs
Two and three quarter hour cruise
Welcome drink
3 course a la carte menu
2 glasses of wine
Complimentary water, tea or coffee
Best views guaranteed
Live Jazz band on board

Love is in the air tonight! Socialise with other like minded people and enjoy a fine dining experience at this exquisite venue.
Stockbrook Manor has been a favourite of Across the Room members for many years. Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you on arrival and introduce you to new and existing members.
We will move the gents twice, your whole evening will be enhanced by the sounds of our resident DJ who will play all the latest sounds!

Don’t miss our Intimate Singles Dinner at The Blue Strawberry Hatfield Peverel.
This event always sells out fast so book your place today.
Excellent cuisine and fine wines, stimulating company and a chance to meet that someone special!
Choose from a selection of Chef’s Specials cooked to perfection
The gentlemen move round between courses which keeps the converssation flowing.
Eleanor will meet you on arrival, so no need to worry if you are coming on your own.
To find out more about any of our events, please call the office for a no-obligation chat 01449 722800 / 722131

Rafting in Wales - specialist event, call us for more information
One to One Dating
If you are interested in our Dating Agency as well as our social events, then please call us for a friendly, no obligation chat on 01449 722700/800. All members of the One2One Dating receive a face to face interview, in order to get to know you and the type of person you would like to meet. Your matches will be hand picked and a team of experts will work on your behalf to find your perfect partner! Interested? Call us

We are organising an exciting event just for ladies! in their 40's to 70's!
On Thursday 20th April 2023 we have decided to book The Curry Inn, Needham Market, Suffolk for a night of fun, laughter, good conversation and great food.
This event is designed for ladies to get together, have fun and enjoy the evening.
Please call us on 01449 722800 to book your place. You will be able to choose from a varied menu on the night and each lady just pays for the meal she has chosen.
So join us for a ladies night out, have a great evening and make new friends.

We are excited to announce our return to Hertfordshire for a magical evening of fine dining and dancing at the spectacular Brickendon Grange Golf and Country Club.
Across the Room events are Strictly Singles. Members must be single, divorced, separated or widowed. Sorry, no couples.
Guests will be personally met on arrival with a welcome drink, and will be introduced to other like minded singles to mix and mingle and keep the conversation flowing.
Take your seat for an exquisite 3 course meal with fine wine whilst enjoying stimulating conversation. Tables are age banded to ensure members are amongst singles within their age group. Table moves for the gentlemen between courses ensure the evening is interesting and exciting throughout.
Our dance card system is the perfect ice breaker and gets everyone on the dance floor, our wonderful DJ knows exactly what to play to keep the dancing in full swing until midnight.
This event will sell out quickly so please book early to avoid disappointment.

Fast track to love at this exclusive Italian restaurant.
We are seeking 8 ladies and 8 gentlemen with that special ingredient which sets them apart from the crowd. We are seeking exubarent, friendly, approachable people with a love of life, go-getters who know what they want. If this sounds like you, then book today!
Across the Room events are exciting and fun! If you would like more details, call our friendly team on 01449 722800 / 723191.

By popular demand we return to the The Bull in Long Melford. We are sure that there is something magical about this beautiful historic hotel. Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you in the front lounge bar for pre dinner drinks where you can acquaint yourself with other members of Across the Room.
Dinner will be served in the beamed restaurant with it s very own centrally located dance floor. Dance until midnight whilst taking advantage of the comfortable lounges for that intimate tête à tête! This event is always a winner so book early to avoid disappointment.
If you would like to find out if Across the Room is for you, please call the office on 01449 722800 / 723191 - There is no obligation.

Swipe Right - How DO you find love?
Meet over 100 Singles face to face
at our Strictly Singles events
It’s law of averages, we need to meet many single people to find the one. But, what happens if dating apps are not right for you, you don’t feel comfortable, you feel exposed, you have had a bad experience, ok let’s just say the truth – for many single people dating apps just do not work.
So, let’s stop and think for a minute –
what does work then? Many singles just do not have the opportunity to socialise in large groups of other singles, their friends are in couples, and they are just not meeting anyone new.
The Across the Room Stricktly Singles Events is the answer.
You meet other like minded single people face to face at fabulous venues, the events are well attended and sell out very quickly.
Act now to brighten your future!
Stricktly Singles means just that! Sorry - no couples! Call Eleanor on 01449 723191 to find out more about the Across the Room events and our unique fantastic events!

Our Matchmaker Dinners are strictly SINGLES ONLY - no couples - but there will be many opportunities to meet new and existing members at this popular restaurant.
Single? then it is time to act and make the change! Come out this evening and allow us to introduce you to attractive singles of the opposite sex. The Blue Strawberry in Essex serves the freshest, finest food set in lovely surroundings.
Eleanor and Neville will meet you on arrival – Two moves for the Gents to keep the table buzzing!
Fab venue, great food & attractive new company.
Missed out on this great event? Don't worry, we return to The Blue Strawberry regularly so keep an eye on our calendar
We also have fantastic events in other counties, not too far away. We are hoping to announce our next event soon.Our Matchmaker Dinners are strictly SINGLES ONLY - no couples - but you may meet someone on the night!
Single? then it is time to act and make the change! Come out this evening and allow us to introduce you to attractive singles of the opposite sex. The Blue Strawberry in Essex serves the freshest, finest food set in lovely surroundings.
Eleanor and Neville will meet you on arrival – Two moves for the Gents to keep the table buzzing!
Fab venue, great food & attractive new company.
Missed out on this great event? Don't worry, we return to The Blue Strawberry regularly so keep an eye on our calendar
We also have fantastic events in other counties, not too far away. We are hoping to announce our next event soon.

We are pleased to be back at the Four Horseshoes for our Strictly Singles Matchmaker Dinner.
The Four Horseshoes is one of our favourite venues, nestling in the heart of Suffolk countryside a short distance off the Norwich road.
The food is excellent and the company is stimulating, we meet you at the door and introduce you to new and existing members. You will meet new people and make new friends, perhaps even meeting someone special. There is plenty of time to mix and mingle before and after the three course meal, during which there are moves for the gentlemen after each course.
Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you on arrival, so no need to worry if you are coming on your own.
Why not join us and experience the magic of the venue and the warmth of the company. Book early to avoid disappointment.
This is just one of our many singles events in Suffolk. Do have a look round our websites for more information on singles events and our dating agency in Suffolk. Best still, call now for a friendly chat and more information on 01449 722800 - no obligation.

Stock Brook Country Club is always a complete sell out! Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you on arrival and introduce you to new and existing members.
Come out tonight and admire the opulence, the ambience and the magnificent surroundings. The gents change tables between courses, dance ‘til late, meet your Cinderella or Prince Charming tonight!
Remember… life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away!... we are awaiting your call!
Across the Room events are exciting and fun! If you would like more details, call our friendly team on 01449 722800 / 723191
Delicious 3 course meal served with quality wines
Vegetarian Option available pre-book with the office

Keep an eye on this calendar for details of our autumn events as they become available.
We are planning new events all the time.
Across the Room events are exciting and fun! If you would like more details, just call our friendly team on 01449 722800 / 723191

Personal One 2 One Introductions
Would you like to find out more information regarding our successful One2One Personal Introduction service? With various membership options available, there is something for everyone. Please call the office for a friendly chat and to request a free, no obligation information pack. Allow Across the Room to Fast Track you to love and romance.
Our Social Events and Dating Agency Service is very active in the Suffolk area. Many single people have met their match through this Personal Introduction Service.
Suffolk is one of our busiest areas and Across the Room holds many fabulous Singles Events in Suffolk! Single people in Suffolk enjoy dining at five star hotels with many other like-minded single members!

Our Strictly Singles Spanish Event!
Sizzling Suffolk. Join us for our Spanish night with our resident Spanish Chef, Luis Miguel. You will be greeted with a glass of chilled wine or a Sangria and a variety of nibbles. Then chill out with Eleanor & Neville, mix and mingle, with an equal number of interesting, attractive singles.
You may find love, romance or make new friends, but one thing is for sure you will have a great value night out. Enjoy a delicious three course meal with unlimited wine. Great company, music and festivity awaits at this idyllic 16th century Barn in Sensational Suffolk.

We are organising an exciting event just for ladies! in their 40's to 70's!
We have decided to visit The Curry Inn, Needham Market, Suffolk for a night of fun, laughter, good conversation and great food, without the gentlemen present - just for this evening!
This event is designed for ladies to get together, have fun and enjoy the evening and make new friends.
Perhaps you may like to come along with your new acquaitances from this evening to some of our matchmaking events where we have equal numbers of ladies and gentlemen present?
Please call us on 01449 722800 to book your place. You will be able to choose from a varied menu on the night and each lady just pays for the meal she has chosen.
So join us for a ladies night out, have a great evening and make new friends.

Five star luxury in the heart of London! This exquisite event is not to be missed! World famous scrumptious cuisine, French wines and Champagnes served in the spectacular Palm Court; the Palm Court is a dramatic room of fanciful design, flanked by high walls of gleaming mirrors, a ceiling seemingly woven together with intricate gilded trellis, romantic birdcage chandeliers adorned with ornate metal flowers, a striking stone fountain inhabited by large gilded statues and at the centre of the room a soaring, vibrant floral display.
An unforgettable afternoon is to be had for you and other singles in your area. You will be served a variety of specialist teas and delicious menu. Tickets are strictly limited for this event so don’t delay – book today! Enjoy a traditional afternoon tea in the spectacular Palm Court.
The events are exciting and fun when they are in your area, but during the week why don't you meet single members for one to one dates that are personally tailored to meet your specific requirements. If you would like to know more about our successful dating service please call Eleanor for a friendly chat, there is no obligation and this could be just what you are looking for.
Call Eleanor on: 01449 722800 or 07771 884429
We also have a Dating Agency
If you are interested in our Dating Agency as well as our social events, then please call us for a friendly, no obligation chat on 01449 722700. All members of the One2One Dating receive a face to face interview, in order to get to know you and the type of person you would like to meet. Your matches will be hand picked and a team of experts will work on your behalf to find your perfect partner! Interested? Call us

Hanbury Manor - A Stately Jacobean Country House
With its fragrant walled gardens, stately Jacobean Country House and 200 acres of Hertfordshire parkland, the historic Hanbury Manor is sure to sell out!
Sunday lunches create the perfect relaxed atmosphere in which you can meet like minded people and wile away the afternoon whilst meeting new and exciting new friends. What could be more perfect? So join us this Sunday and your luck may change for the better.
Enjoy a traditional Sunday lunch - includes wine.

Personal One 2 One Introductions in Essex
Would you like to find out more information regarding our successful One2One Personal Introduction service? With various membership options available, there is something for everyone. Please call the office for a friendly chat and to request a free, no obligation information pack. Allow Across the Room to Fast Track you to love and romance.
Our Social Events and Dating Agency Service is very active in the Essex area. Many single people have met their match through this Personal Introduction Service.
Essex is one of our busiest areas and Across the Room holds many fabulous Singles Events in Essex! Single people in Essex enjoy dining at five star hotels with many other like-minded single members!

PRIVATE SUITE
A delicious 3 course meal with wine included.
Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you on arrival and introduce you to new and existing members.
Meet new, exciting, attractive singles at this favourite venue. Good food, Fine wines, a Groovy DJ, spacious dance floor and worth every penny! these are the ingredients that set Across the Room event apart for the rest! Two moves for the Gents. Come on - it’s in the right place, the right price so if you are free, take a chance and find romance!
This event will be a sell out and a night to remember so call the office Now!
Always a winner! Book very early for this ever popular event. Tickets sell out fast for this well located hotel, always equal numbers of ladies & gents

The Blue Strawberry is always a popular event, there is a certain charm about this venue with exposed beams and the good company you will find with our members.
Renowned throughout Essex and beyond, this unique venue offers high class cuisine and fine wines, plus a warm, inviting atmosphere - perfect for sparking that intimate relationship.
Meet someone new in this homely, intimate bistro! Sumptuous food, fine wines and irresistible company - meet your dream partner tonight.
Make your selection from a varied menu and enjoy each course with new company as the gentlemen move round between courses.
Don't forget - our events are STRICTLY SINGLES ! no couples (unless you meet on the night!)
Eleanor will meet you on arrival, so no need to worry if you are coming on your own.
Call now to book your place on 01449 722800.

PRIVATE SUITE
Members travel from far and wide to attend this fabulous event. What makes it so good? The excellent food & wine, the magical atmosphere as you enter. Make a day out and visit nearby Lavenham & nearby antique emporiums, admiring these Historic villages.
Eleanor and here hostesses will meet you on arrival to introduce you to new and existing single members. This event is a great, good value night out, enjoy good food and wine and give yourself the opportunity to meet someone new and exciting. Two moves for the gentleman, then dance the night away to our resident DJ.

PRIVATE BALLROOM
We are incredibly excited to announce our return to Stock Brook Manor for our Pre New Years’ Eve Singles Extravaganza! This Black Tie Ball will be a thrilling event to see in 2024 – This event could change your life, as the clock strikes midnight, whose gaze will catch your eye Across the Room.
This will be an exhilarating experience; the atmosphere will be electric, the company will be stimulating and the food will be delicious.
We will meet you on arrival
Eleanor will meet you on arrival in the ballroom, introducing you to new and existing members – so don’t worry about coming alone. Two table moves for the gentlemen throughout dinner keeping the conversation flowing.
This is set to be a fantastic event so an early booking is highly recommended.
Our pre-new years balls are always a sellout! so book early to avoid disappointment

Meet your Valentine tonight at our Strictly Singles Valentine's Ball!
Brickendon Grange offers a Private Suite, excellent cuisine and a congenial welcoming atmosphere.
We will personally meet you on arrival and introduce you to other like minded singles to mix and mingle and keep the conversation flowing.
Take your seat for an exquisite 3 course meal with fine wine whilst enjoying stimulating conversation. Tables are age banded to ensure members are amongst singles within their age group.
Table moves for the gentlemen between courses ensure the evening is interesting and exciting throughout.
Our dance card offers the perfect ice breaker and gets everyone on the dance floor, our wonderful DJ knows exactly what to play to keep the dancing in full swing until midnight.
This event will sell out quickly so please book early to avoid disappointment.