Singles Events Calendar
Across the Room is a Strictly Singles Organisation.
All the members attending our events must be single and unattached!
If you are single and would like to join us please click here
Ye Olde Plough at Bulphan is a superb venue for our Singles Dinner Dance. A lovely beamed private function room affords ample space to dine and dance with other Singles and perhaps meet smeone special!
There will be a three course meal with wine, with two table moves for the gentlemen to keep the excitement buzzing and the conversation flowing.
Who knows what may, happen on this magic night, whose glance will you catch Across the Room!
Book early for this fantastic event and be sure of your place! Bookings are being taken now, just call the office on 01449 722800.
Did you know we also have a One 2 One Personal Introduction Service - meet your potential match without waiting for the next event with this bespoke service. Just call the office for a no-obligation chat and we'll tell you all about it.
Swipe Right - How DO you find love?
Meet over 100 Singles face to face
at our Strictly Singles events
It’s law of averages, we need to meet many single people to find the one. But, what happens if dating apps are not right for you, you don’t feel comfortable, you feel exposed, you have had a bad experience, ok let’s just say the truth – for many single people dating apps just do not work.
So, let’s stop and think for a minute –
what does work then? Many single just do not have the opportunity to socialise in large groups of other singles, their friends are in couples, and they are just not meeting anyone new.
The Across the Room Strictly Singles Events is the answer.
You meet other like minded single people face to face at fabulous venues, the events are well attended and sell out very quickly.
Act now to brighten your future!
Stricktly Singles means just that! Sorry - no couples! Call Eleanor on 01449 723191 to find out more about the Across the Room events and our unique fantastic events!
PRIVATE SUITE
Allways a sell-out! The Bull is one of our most sought after venues.
Members travel from far and wide to attend this fabulous event. What makes it so good? The excellent food & wine, the magical atmosphere as you enter.
Why not make a day out and visit nearby Lavenham & nearby antique emporiums, admiring these Historic villages.
Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you on arrival to introduce you to new and existing single members. This event is a great, good value night out, enjoy good food and wine and give yourself the opportunity to meet someone new and exciting. Two moves for the gentleman, then dance the night away to our resident DJ.
SUFFOLK SKI CENTRE IPSWICH
Time to hit the slopes and brush up on those skills!
Whether you have skied before or this is a new hobby for you, join us and other like minded singles and enjoy the exhilarating rush of the slopes and wind in your face.
Note: Because of the nature of this specialist event, we cannot guarantee equal numbers of ladies and gentlemen
For more information, please call the office.
These specialist events sell very quickly so call early!
What’s included: Exclusive hire of the dry ski slope for 90 minutes with a qualified instructor followed by light refreshments.
Personal One 2 One Introductions in Essex
With various membership options available, there is something for everyone. Please call the office for a friendly chat and to request a free, no obligation information pack. Allow Across the Room to Fast Track you to love and romance.
Our Social Events and Dating Agency Service is very active in the Suffolk area. Many single people have met their match through this Personal Introduction Service.
Suffolk is one of our busiest areas and Across the Room holds many fabulous Singles Events in Suffolk! Single people in Suffolk enjoy dining at five star hotels with many other like-minded single members!
Book early for our Summertime Ball at Stock Brook Manor
Friday 30th May 2025
PRIVATE BALLROOM
We are very excited to announce our return to Stock Brook Manor for our Summertime Singles Extravaganza! This Black Tie Ball will be a thrilling event and could change your life, whose gaze will catch your eye Across the Room?
Tickets sell fast for this flagship event.
This is a perfect, smaller event where our members can meet before attending some of our bigger events. A real ice-breaker Enjoy fantastic traditional Italian cuisine with your new friends in contemporary, relaxed settings - the best Italian restaurant in Ingatestone! Don’t cook dinner for one tonight – join us for a great evening out this evening.
Thought about dating ?
There is so much opportunity to meet new and exciting singles at our Black Tie Balls and Dinners However if you prefer to meet the opposite sex in a more intimate environment, why not try our One2One Personal Introductions. Please call the office to discuss the social scene or our One2One dating agency on: 01449 722800 mobile: 07771 884429
By popular demand! We are pleased to be back at the Four Horseshoes for our Strictly Singles Matchmaker Dinner.
The Four Horseshoes is one of our favourite venues, nestling in the heart of Suffolk countryside a short distance off the Norwich road.
The food is excellent and the company is stimulating, we meet you at the door and introduce you to new and existing members. You will meet new people and make new friends, perhaps even meeting someone special. There is plenty of time to mix and mingle before and after the three course meal, during which there are moves for the gentlemen after each course.
Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you on arrival, so no need to worry if you are coming on your own.
Why not join us and experience the magic of the venue and the warmth of the company. Book early to avoid disappointment.
This is just one of our many singles events in Suffolk. Do have a look round our websites for more information on singles events and our dating agency in Suffolk. Best still, call now for a friendly chat and more information on 01449 722800 - no obligation.
PRIVATE BALLROOM
Welcome to Stock Brook Manor Country Club, The Premier Singles Black Tie Ball in Essex! Enjoy luxury at this stunning venue, as soon as this event hits our website it sell out.
There is always over 200 single members present, excellent cuisine, quality wines, spacious dance floor and new single company! An overwhelming feeling of excitement fills the air, attractive members all in high spirits and our DJ who keeps the dance floor buzzing.
This is one of our flagship singles events - if you have not experienced it before, come and join us meet fun, friendly members and maybe find romance!
We will meet you on arrival
Eleanor will meet you on arrival in the ballroom, introducing you to new and existing members – so don’t worry about coming alone. Two table moves for the gentlemen throughout dinner keeping the conversation flowing.
This is set to be a fantastic event so an early booking is highly recommended.
Hanbury Manor - A Stately Jacobean Country House
With its fragrant walled gardens, stately Jacobean Country House and 200 acres of Hertfordshire parkland, the historic Hanbury Manor is sure to sell out!
Sunday lunches create the perfect relaxed atmosphere in which you can meet like minded people and wile away the afternoon whilst meeting new and exciting new friends. What could be more perfect? So join us this Sunday and your luck may change for the better.
Enjoy a traditional Sunday lunch - includes wine.
The Bull is a very popular venue with our members and one of our regular venues, always a sell-out!
We return to this historic Hotel in Long Melford, where you will meet with members who travel from far and wide to attend this exceptional Singles night out!
Excellent cuisine, fine wines plus the magical atmosphere as you enter this unique hotel make for a very special evening. If you would like to stay overnight, they have good room rates so why not make a weekend break - Long Melford is a beautiful town with Lavenham nearby too. There is also additional accommodation very close by.
Don't forget to book early, The Bull is one of our favourite venues, so get it in your diary now! Fantastic value for such an exclusive event.
Quality Wine included.
One 2 One ?
Would you like to enhance your chances of meeting that someone special? Why not join our highly successful One2One dating agency in Suffolk - call today for a no-obligation chat, 01449 722800
Canncelled Event from 27th November
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By popular demand! We return to the Four Horseshoes for our Strictly Singles Matchmaker Dinner.
The Four Horseshoes is one of our favourite venues, nestling in the heart of Suffolk countryside a short distance off the Norwich road.
The food is excellent and the company is stimulating, we meet you at the door and introduce you to new and existing members. You will meet new people and make new friends, perhaps even meeting someone special. There is plenty of time to mix and mingle before and after the three course meal, during which there are moves for the gentlemen after each course.
Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you on arrival, so no need to worry if you are coming on your own.
Why not join us and experience the magic of the venue and the warmth of the company. Book early to avoid disappointment.
This is just one of our many singles events in Suffolk. Do have a look round our websites for more information on singles events and our dating agency in Suffolk. Best still, call now for a friendly chat and more information on 01449 722800 - no obligation.
Single? then it is time to act and make the change! Come out this evening and allow us to introduce you to attractive singles of the opposite sex. The Blue Strawberry in Essex serves the freshest, finest food set in lovely surroundings.
Eleanor and Neville will meet you on arrival – Two moves for the Gents to keep the table buzzing!
Fab venue, great food & attractive new company.
Missed out on this great event? Don't worry, we return to The Blue Strawberry regularly so keep an eye on our calendar
We also have fantastic events in other counties, not too far away. Our Matchmaker Dinners are strictly SINGLES ONLY - no couples - but you could meet someone on the night!
Our Strictly Singles Spanish Event!
Sizzling Suffolk. Join us for our Spanish night with our resident Spanish Chef, Luis Miguel. You will be greeted with a glass of chilled wine or a Sangria and a variety of nibbles. Then chill out with Eleanor & Neville, mix and mingle, with an equal number of interesting, attractive singles.
You may find love, romance or make new friends, but one thing is for sure you will have a great value night out. Enjoy a delicious three course meal with unlimited wine. Great company, music and festivity awaits at this idyllic 16th century Barn in Sensational Suffolk.
NEW EVENT!
By popular demand we return to the Brome Grange Hotel which is perfectly located on the A140 between Norfolk and Suffolk, also perfect for members who live further afield as you able to book a room. Bedrooms are reasonably priced.
Dine and dance and enjoy a delicious three course meal with wine in the fabulous surroundings of the Brome Grange Hotel.
Excellent cuisine and stimulating company, two table moves for the gentlemen to keep the conversation buzzing, everything about this fabulous evening is right for you to meet that special someone. Just glance Across the Room and see whose gaze you might encounter!
Call NOW to book your place - 01449 722800 / 07771 884429
Set on the main A140 Norwich Road, this venue is easy to reach from Essex, Norfolk or Suffolk.
Personal One 2 One Introductions in Suffolk
Would you like to find out more information regarding our successful One2One Personal Introduction service? With various membership options available, there is something for everyone. Please call the office for a friendly chat and to request a free, no obligation information pack. Allow Across the Room to Fast Track you to love and romance.
Our Social Events and Dating Agency Service is very active in the Suffolk area. Many single people have met their match through this Personal Introduction Service.
Suffolk is one of our busiest areas and Across the Room holds many fabulous Singles Events in Suffolk! Single people in Suffolk enjoy dining at five star hotels with many other like-minded single members!
NEW EVENT!
Overnight stay - Call us for a list of nearby hotels.
Meet your match tonight at our Strictly Singles Ball!
Brickendon Grange offers a Private Suite, excellent cuisine and a congenial welcoming atmosphere.
We will personally meet you on arrival and introduce you to other like minded singles to mix and mingle and keep the conversation flowing.
Take your seat for an exquisite 3 course meal with fine wine whilst enjoying stimulating conversation. Tables are age banded to ensure members are amongst singles within their age group.
Table moves for the gentlemen between courses ensure the evening is interesting and exciting throughout.
Our dance card offers the perfect ice breaker and gets everyone on the dance floor, our wonderful DJ knows exactly what to play to keep the dancing in full swing until midnight.
This event will sell out quickly so please book early to avoid disappointment.
By popular demand we return to the The Bull in Long Melford. We are sure that there is something magical about this beautiful historic hotel. Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you in the front lounge bar for pre dinner drinks where you can acquaint yourself with other members of Across the Room.
Dinner will be served in the beamed restaurant with it s very own centrally located dance floor. Dance until midnight whilst taking advantage of the comfortable lounges for that intimate tête à tête! This event is always a winner so book early to avoid disappointment.
If you would like to find out if Across the Room is for you, please call the office on 01449 722800 / 723191 - There is no obligation.
We are incredibly excited to announce our return to Stock Brook Manor for our pre New Years’ Eve Singles Extravaganza!
This Black Tie Ball will be a thrilling event to see in 2026. This event could change your life, as the clock strikes midnight, whose gaze will catch your eye Across the Room.
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This will be an exhilarating experience; the atmosphere will be electric, the company will be stimulating and the food will be delicious.
Eleanor will meet you on arrival, introducing you to new and existing members - so don’t worry about coming alone. Two table moves for the gentlemen throughout dinner keeping the conversation flowing. This is set to be a fantastic event so an early booking is highly recommended.
Hanbury Manor - A Stately Jacobean Country House
With its fragrant walled gardens, stately Jacobean Country House and 200 acres of Hertfordshire parkland, the historic Hanbury Manor is sure to sell out!
Sunday lunches create the perfect relaxed atmosphere in which you can meet like minded people and wile away the afternoon whilst meeting new and exciting new friends. What could be more perfect? So join us this Sunday and your luck may change for the better.
Tickets will sell quicky for this event, so get your booking in early! Call now on 01449 722800 or 07771 884429 and we'll get you booked in.
Exciting New Venue!
Join us for an unforgettable Valentine's Black Tie Ball at the Barnham Broom Hotel, where the charm of a beautiful setting and the thrill of new connections come together. This special singles Black Tie Ball invites you to meet like minded Singles in a vibrant atmosphere enhanced by the stunning décor of the venue. With an enticing ambience that encourages mingling, it’s the perfect opportunity to explore potential friendships or perhaps something more special.
Exquisite Dining Experience
The evening begins with a delightful three-course meal paired with a selection of fine wines, designed to stimulate your taste buds and create invigorating conversation. Each dish is crafted with care, featuring seasonal ingredients that elevate the dining experience. As the gentlemen will move between tables, conversations will flow freely, ensuring that laughter and engaging discussions keep the spirit lively. This interactive dining format encourages connection, allowing guests to discover more about each other in a relaxed environment.
A Memorable Evening of Dance
After savouring the exquisite meal, the night transitions into a lively dance party featuring our resident DJ. The dance floor beckons as music fills the room, setting the stage for fun and connection. Guests are encouraged to let loose, enjoying the rhythm and energy of the night while mingling with others. The atmosphere is perfect for breaking the ice, letting you embrace the spontaneity of the evening as laughter and new friendships form on the dance floor.
As you glance across the room, you might find someone catching your eye, igniting a spark of curiosity and potential connection. Who knows what the night could bring? Whether it's a new friendship or a romantic encounter, the possibilities are endless at this exciting singles dinner dance.
Luxurious Overnight Accommodation
For those wishing to continue the night’s enchantment, Barnham Broom Hotel offers luxurious bedrooms for overnight stays. After an evening of fine dining and dancing, retreat to your beautifully designed room, complete with all the amenities you need for a restful night.
Please book accommodation directly with the hotel 01603 759393
https://barnham-broom.co.uk
We have some rooms reserved at the Barnham Broom - please say you are with Across the Room when booking.
Alternative Accommodation
Otherwise, these are some of the nearby alternative hotels if Barnham Broom is full:
Honingham Buck (3.5 miles) NR9 5BL 01603 880393
The Parson Woodforge (8 miles) NR9 5JU 01603 881675
Wensum Valley Golf Club Hotel (7 miles) NR8 6HP 01603 261012
Premiere Inn Norwich West A47 (6 milles) NR5 0TP 03333 211366
Personal One 2 One Introductions in Essex
With various membership options available, there is something for everyone. Please call the office for a friendly chat and to request a free, no obligation information pack. Allow Across the Room to Fast Track you to love and romance.
Our Social Events and Dating Agency Service is very active in the Suffolk area. Many single people have met their match through this Personal Introduction Service.
Suffolk is one of our busiest areas and Across the Room holds many fabulous Singles Events in Suffolk! Single people in Suffolk enjoy dining at five star hotels with many other like-minded single members!
We return to The Bull - SUFFOLK
Friday 3rd July 2026 7.00 pm
The Bull is one of our favourite venues with its olde worlde charm and private function room with oak beams and central dance floor. 01449 722800
Tickte selling fast - book now!
Suffolk is one of our busiest areas and Across the Room holds many fabulous Singles Events in Suffolk! Single people in Suffolk enjoy dining at five star hotels with many other like-minded single members!
SEE BELOW ON THE CALENDAR FOR FULL DETAILS
Join us for an unforgettable Springtime Singles Dinner Dance at Channels in Chelmsford, where the night is designed exclusively for those seeking connection and fun. This enchanting evening features a three course meal and wine. Each dish is thoughtfully crafted to satisfy the taste buds and set the stage for the evening's romantic atmosphere.
To enhance the social experience, the event includes table moves for the gentlemen, allowing them to switch tables between courses. This unique feature keeps the conversation flowing and encourages Singles to engage with different guests, fostering lively interactions. As new faces are met, the potential for new friends to be made increases, making each moment at the table an exciting opportunity to discover common interests and shared stories.
After an exquisite dinner, the ambiance shifts and the dance floor opens up. Our resident DJ will take over, playing a mixture of popular tunes to get everyone moving. Whether you are a seasoned dancer or just looking to have fun, the lively setting will invite everyone to let loose and enjoy the rhythm. Our six starter dances are the perfect way to break the ice further, allowing connections to deepen through shared enjoyment and laughter.
Given its popularity, Channels is a sought after venue for such events, so it’s wise to book early to secure your spot. Don’t miss this chance to meet new people, enjoy a delicious meal, and dance the night away in a charming and friendly environment. Book now and join us for an evening filled with excitement, connection, and unforgettable memories.
Accommodation Available - Please contact Channels directly to book your room. 01245 441547
Experience a delightful evening at The Blue Strawberry in Hatfield Peverel, one of our favourite venues for a Summer Singles Dinner. Known for its outstanding cuisine, this charming location blends old world charm with modern convenience, making it an ideal spot for singles looking to connect. Its proximity to Chelmsford and easy access from the A12 ensures that guests can enjoy a hassle-free journey to this enchanting setting.
Equal Numbers
With equal numbers of ladies and gentlemen, the atmosphere is perfectly balanced, allowing everyone the chance to engage in meaningful interactions. Guests will have ample time to mix and mingle before and after the meal, creating a relaxed environment where conversations can flow freely. This thoughtful arrangement sets the stage for an enjoyable evening, making it easier to strike up a connection with someone special.
Choice of Menu
One unique aspect of our dinner is the table moves for gentlemen, which encourages more dynamic interactions. As they switch tables between courses, gentlemen have the opportunity to chat with different guests, expanding their social circle throughout the night. This feature not only keeps discussions lively but also fosters an atmosphere where friendships can easily blossom.
Make New Friends
The Blue Strawberry at Hatfield Peverel is a place where connections are made and memories are created. Join us for an evening filled with delicious food, engaging conversations, and the potential to forge lasting relationships in a warm and welcoming environment. Don’t miss out on this wonderful opportunity to meet new people over a delightful dinner!
Call now to book your place on 01449 722800 or 07771 884429
A new venue for Across the Room. Join us at this exquisite restaurant for a romantic "Dinner for Eight at Eight."
A romantic dinner unfolds as the sun sets, casting a golden hue over this charming restaurant. the ambience is perfect for turning a new acquainntance into something special.
The menu is a gastronomic delight, featuring a carefully curated selection of dishes that embody culinary artistry.
We meet you on arrival and introduce you to other members. Don’t worry about coming
alone!
The Bull is a very popular venue with our members and one of our regular venues, always a sell-out!
We return to this historic Hotel in Long Melford, where you will meet with members who travel from far and wide to attend this exceptional Singles night out!
Excellent cuisine, fine wines plus the magical atmosphere as you enter this unique hotel make for a very special evening. If you would like to stay overnight, they have good room rates so why not make a weekend break - Long Melford is a beautiful town with Lavenham nearby too. There is also additional accommodation very close by.
Don't forget to book early, The Bull is one of our favourite venues, so get it in your diary now! Fantastic value for such an exclusive event.
One 2 One ?
Would you like to enhance your chances of meeting that someone special? Why not join our highly successful One2One dating agency in Suffolk - call today for a no-obligation chat, 01449 722800
Five star luxury in the heart of London! This exquisite event is not to be missed! World famous scrumptious cuisine, French wines and Champagnes served in the spectacular Palm Court.
The Palm Court is an impressive room of fanciful design, flanked by high walls of gleaming mirrors, a ceiling seemingly woven together with intricate gilded trellis, romantic birdcage chandeliers adorned with ornate metal flowers, a striking stone fountain inhabited by large gilded statues and at the centre of the room a soaring, vibrant floral display.
An unforgettable afternoon is to be had by all. You will be served a variety of specialist dishes and delicious menu options. Tickets are strictly limited for this event so don’t delay – book today!
Please note: Owing to the speciality of this event we cannot guarantee equal numbers of ladies and gentlemen.
We are excited to return to this prestige venue for our Singles Dinner Dance.
This Singles dinner dance at Sprowston Manor promises to be an exceptional evening designed specifically for Singles looking to make meaningful connections. You will enjoy a sumptuous three course dinner, beautifully crafted to tantalize the taste buds. Fine wines not only enriches the dining experience but also creates the perfect backcloth for lively conversations and new friendships.
As you arrive, you will be greeted by Eleanor and her hostesses and experience the captivating atmosphere, enhanced by the beats of a resident DJ.
To keep the mood engaging and conversations flowing, gentlemen will move between tables during the dinner. This dynamic format allows participants to mix and mingle with different guests, ensuring that no one feels left out. With every new table, the potential for connection grows as eyes meet across the room, igniting sparks of interest and anticipation for meaningful exchanges.
After dinner, the dance floor will become a hub of energy, where singles can express themselves through movement and rhythm, further breaking the ice and facilitating interactions.
Whether you're looking to find love or simply enjoy a night filled with laughter and connection, this dinner dance is a perfect opportunity. As the evening unfolds and connections deepen, Sprowston Manor will transform into more than just a venue; it will become a place where hearts and stories intertwine, creating lasting memories for all involved.
Ye Olde Plough at Bulphan is a superb venue for our Singles Dinner Dance. A lovely beamed private function room affords ample space to dine and dance with other Singles and perhaps meet smeone special!
There will be a three course meal with wine, with two table moves for the gentlemen to keep the excitement buzzing and the conversation flowing.
Who knows what may, happen on this magic night, whose glance will you catch Across the Room!
Book early for this fantastic event and be sure of your place! Bookings are being taken now, just call the office on 01449 722800.
Did you know we also have a One 2 One Personal Introduction Service - meet your potential match without waiting for the next event with this bespoke service. Just call the office for a no-obligation chat and we'll tell you all about it.
Brickendon Grange offers a Private Suite, excellent cuisine and a congenial welcoming atmosphere.
We will personally meet you on arrival and introduce you to other like minded singles to mix and mingle and keep the conversation flowing.
Take your seat for an exquisite 3 course meal with fine wine whilst enjoying stimulating conversation. Tables are age banded to ensure members are amongst singles within their age group.
Table moves for the gentlemen between courses ensure the evening is interesting and exciting throughout.
Our dance card offers the perfect ice breaker and gets everyone on the dance floor, our wonderful DJ knows exactly what to play to keep the dancing in full swing until midnight.
This event will sell out quickly so please book early to avoid disappointment.
